A room of one’s own
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Don’t turn back
This week has been a life lesson for my son. Every time he tried to do something, he was turned back. This evening I have been thinking about hurdles as well- I’m home alone and it has taken me 35 minutes to get in the position I wanted- lying on my bed! Keeping going can…
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Every ‘unremarkable’ day
‘today is just like yesterday and tomorrow’s going to be just like today.’ Or so says a character in Isabel Allende’s The Wind Knows my Name. Do you live a life like that? Is there anyone who doesn’t? I often think my life is a repetition of nothings. But right now I’m saying it’s got…
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Behind the sofa
Many years ago, when my dad was dating mum, he had her round to his flat. It looked very tidy. Until she peered behind the sofa. That was where he had put all his mess. Do you have a place where you hide all your rubbish? Remember Monica’s cupboard in Friends? What are you hiding…
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Look out another window
My brother asked someone last weekend if he had seen the aurora. His answer was ‘no because I was looking out the wrong window.’ Does it ever strike you that maybe you are looking at your life the wrong way? That perhaps you might find a better perspective than you have right now?
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Fight for your chances
Two nights ago, my husband and son told me to stand up and come down the stairs to see something amazing. I reluctantly struggled into the garden and looked up to see a faint version of what you see in the picture above. They were both so excited and all I could think about was…
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The rock
Do you ever feel everything in your world is moving too fast? And you are left searching for something solid to hold onto?
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Flying without wings
I heard this week that the centuries old Moulin Rouge windmill in Paris has lost its sails. For no explicable reason. When I read that, I couldn’t help but relate. But for some reason that cheesy song, You’re flying without wings by Take That (edit: oops, Westlife) came to mind. Scrabbling away from dangerous self-pity…
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Don’t blink
Else you miss it My neighbour has this cherry tree that blossoms for a week every year. After that, it returns to being just a normal looking tree. I was looking at it a few days ago and realised this was my chance to enjoy the blossom before it blows off for another year. Looking…
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Always believe
That you can win. I was reading an article on BBC news about Ukraine, and one general from here was saying that 2024 was likely to be the year when Ukraine has to concede defeat. ‘The reason, he says, is “because Ukraine may come to feel it can’t win”.That made my heart sink. The moment…
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‘Get up
Out of bed, have a yawn and scratch your head and say thank-you, it’s a brand new day.’ Or so says a Bible club song from years ago. Is that the way you feel every morning? A witty friend re-wrote the song with ‘Get up out of bed, stub your toe and bang your head’.…