A room of one’s own

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  • Whatever the weather

    Whatever the weather

    I was looking out the window of the holiday cottage we stayed in last week and saw a Springer spaniel running back and forth over the beach. It was pouring with rain and very windy. Do you think that bothered the dog? Not a bit of it!

  • Where everybody knows your name

    Where everybody knows your name

    My other half was in Boston last week. In my exhaustion I didn’t recognise the place at the beginning in his photo, but when I was told the tagline I knew straightway. I remembered I used to come home every lunchtime and get a boost from watching half an hour of Cheers before I went…

  • Be that person

    Be that person

    Who always has time to listen, who can step in when needed, who is there.

  • The tattered pieces of us

    The tattered pieces of us

    Are possibly the ones that make us who we are. In my (all too frequent) times of self-pity I lament everything I have lost. Everything that my bad health has taken from me. But, light bulb moment!- maybe what is left is actually the best of me. Maybe that is true for you as well.

  • If the cap doesn’t fit anymore

    If the cap doesn’t fit anymore

    Change it.

  • Celebrate

    Celebrate

    Your achievements, however small they might appear to other people. I was notified today that I have been blogging with wordpress for eighteen years.🎉 In my healthier past I would feel a sense of achievement when I swam forty lengths or baked a fantastic cake. These quieter days, my bar is much lower. But, happily,…

  • Keep on laughing

    Keep on laughing

    Last Sunday I was trying to put on tights. My husband was giving me a hand. It didn’t help that we were both finding it hilarious. When I was recounting this to someone they remarked, ‘better to laugh than cry’. At lunchtime today Jeremy Vine was talking about the death of comedy. No one, he…

  • Living without

    Living without

    My electric wheelchair broke yesterday. I tried to carry on without it but, honestly, I’m adrift! Surviving without something, or more painfully, someone, is so hard.

  • Turn it round

    Turn it round

    I was going over this past week last night and felt completely overwhelmed. I had the choice to give in to despair or find another way to deal with it all. I decided then to pray blessings on every situation, every person that was stressing me out. It calmed me down and helped to take…

  • A little more time

    A little more time

    Or maybe a lot. I don’t know about you, but I feel like I’m always chasing my tail. Today, for example, the soup I’ve made will be ready for a very late lunch. Every morning I hear busy people racing to work and I admire their commitment.