A room of one’s own

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  • When was the last time

    Someone encouraged you? If you are still running on the positive words spoken to you years ago, it’s time for something new! I have been so aware of the number of people I know who are downhearted at the moment. Sometimes all it takes is a small bit of encouragement to help them keep going.…

  • Found.

    I thought my earring was gone for good but then my daughter found it. Last week I was sitting on the kitchen floor unable to get myself up, but then my neighbour found me and helped me up. Those two events, little and big, involved finding. The joy surrounding both was great!

  • Look out for

    The helicopters. I’m sure you know the story about the drowning man who refuses offers of help, saying that God would rescue him, not realising that God had sent the boat and helicopter to save him. I wonder how much help we miss out on because we’re looking in the wrong place?

  • Facing the future

    Someone apologetically asked me a very blunt question recently: ‘what is your prognosis?’ Maybe I’m fortunate to know more than most about what lies ahead, but I would rather live in denial than accept it. The word ‘wheelchair’ used to be alien to me until I actually needed it. My mum’s neighbour very kindly gave…

  • Find one good thing.

    Today is a meh day, just like the picture. I’m dosed with the cold and have spent all morning trying to find an ounce of positivity to give me something to write about.

  • True colours

    Yesterday my daughter was looking for wrapping paper to back some of her school books in. She found an old sheet of Peppa Pig. But she did a funny thing; she turned the paper round so the white back of it was on the outside. I held my tongue and realised yet again it’s better…

  • The intangibles

    I have discovered a great secret. To live without tangible strength is to exist among the intangible things: like inner strength, unseen miracles and quiet victories.

  • Be free

    Let me tell you a happy story today. Back in June, after six months of mainly sitting on my sofa looking out at life flying past without me, I was introduced to the idea of trikes, or more specifically, recumbent bicycles.

  • Would you describe yourself as

    Relaxed? When you sit down and think about it, are your nerves heightened and your worries rising, or are you able to let go and breathe easily?

  • Starting again

    Is tough, and it is tempting to turn back at the first hurdle. I have a few things pressing in on me at the moment; all of them require a certain amount of courage and perseverance. Firstly, there is the wasted muscle in my legs. I have lost a lot of sleep worrying about how…