A room of one’s own

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  • How do we measure

    Our lives? Is it in teaspoonfuls or spades?

  • One more step

    Or maybe a thousand. I got one of those fancy step counting watches for my birthday at the start of the month. I was fully intending to ignore the number of steps my shaky legs could do but somehow, curiosity got the better of me. The first day I checked I knew the number would…

  • What’s better than an emerald ring?

    For as long as I can remember, but not really these past twenty years, we’ve always been told that one day, dad would get my mum an emerald ring. I don’t think it was ever a serious request, but the notion hung around many’s an after-dinner discussion. Maybe one day, mum had seen an emerald…

  • Doing less does not mean

    Being less. When I commented that I was late this morning my son said, ‘sure you’ve got nothing to do anyway’. Before that my husband had encouraged me to stay in bed as I didn’t have anything in particular to get up for. As you can imagine, neither comment helped with my sense of purpose…

  • No return address

    I sent my two on their bikes to post a card last week. It was only after they came back that I realised I hadn’t written my address on the back. What if they want to write back, or what if it gets lost? I worried that afternoon and then I asked myself, why does…

  • The dark out there.

    I’ve always been the type who fears the dark, far-off places, unknown things and future events. When I was wee, an old man asked me why I was afraid of the dark when everything is the same as when it’s daylight. I haven’t forgotten that, but still the dark figures lurk. The year I went…

  • Angels with boots on.

    Even if you don’t believe in the supernatural, the human sort of angel is pretty common.

  • Complicating kindness

    I’ve had this knot in my chest since Saturday. Why? I read a tweet by someone who, rightfully or not, was destroying the act of clapping for the NHS every Thursday night. Admittedly, she did work for the NHS and had a very valid argument for her objection, mainly to do with the Conservative party.…

  • My candle

    It started one day when I heard that someone had asked for people to light their candles to show solidarity with their self-isolating neighbours.

  • Spring in your step.

    It’s been a long time since I walked with light footsteps. I haven’t been able to skip, dance, jog or jump for years.