A room of one’s own

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  • When it looks like everything is going wrong

    When it looks like everything is going wrong

    Something must be going right. If you feel like you’re overwhelmed, look around for good things.

  • Our kintsugi story

    Our kintsugi story

    If you think back over the last few encounters you have had, you will have come across people who have had their fair share of hardship. Actually, everyone has.

  • In the mess

    In the mess

    I’m always writing about things that get fixed or telling you how to get through them. But what if they are still broken and you’re left with a situation you cannot philosophise your way out of?

  • Speak of your love

    Speak of your love

    Every time you think it.

  • They’re still alive!

    They’re still alive!

    We have three little pots of succulents that have been languishing in our front room for a few years now. My husband finally noticed them, soaked them in water overnight and declared them alive, (even though one of them still looks dubious.)

  • The things you still have

    The things you still have

    I was at a park earlier and as I took in the autumn colours, the calming sound of the river, I somehow knew that this was important. Later on I put my driving licence in an envelope with a letter confirming I was no longer able to drive. At that moment, I thought about the…

  • Light in our darkness

    Light in our darkness

    As the sun reappeared from behind another dark cloud, I was reminded that hard times don’t last forever. I have lost count of the number of people going through darkness at the moment. The world is filled with war, starvation, floods, earthquakes, political corruption, injustice, abuse, exploitation and abandonment of the weakest. Now, more than…

  • Jumping in puddles

    Jumping in puddles

    Do things sometimes happen for a welcome reason?

  • Throw away regret

    Throw away regret

    And start something new.

  • Don’t underestimate

    Don’t underestimate

    How capable you or your children are when changes come. When I am going over all the things racing round my head, I am always filled with anxiety and trepidation. The questions are ‘will they manage all of this?’ or ‘will I be able to survive?’ It hit me yesterday that I was looking at…