A room of one’s own

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  • Follow the leader

    Perhaps it’s a youngest child syndrome, or a lack of self-confidence garnered from several years of working from home, but the truth is, I am in need of a leader.  You know, somebody to show me how to live, to confirm all of my choices, to egg me on to take the bravest step.  Even…

  • Finally, after a year of trying

    Finally, after a year of trying

    It’s here.  No-one I wrote to wanted to take my book on.  After a time of feeling the sting of rejection, I dusted myself down and published it myself.  So there. Reading over a story I had written over a year ago, it felt like meeting old friends, and enemies too.  It’s the book I…

  • Every day sexism

    I have frequently waved away my husband’s insistence that the above term is real.  Of course, when I hear stories and accounts of treatment of women, I acknowledge it is a pressing concern, but my hidden away life keeps me innocent of it. Innocent, that is, until yesterday.  We were all going to a five…

  • All the world’s a stage

    After more than twelve years rebelliously stuffing myself with chick lit, I have finally got my heavy Complete Works of Shakespeare down from the top shelf.  It’s been so long I am surprised to see how many of the plays have little ticks beside them, as ones I’ve read.  I thought I’d start with the…

  • The dream

    Two things happened recently which made me feel sad.  The first was yet another familiar instance of wanting to be able to walk faster and further than I could.  It’s like that common nightmare of needing to be somewhere and not being able to run to make it on time.  Your head is telling you…

  • Precious secret things

    Precious secret things

    Do you ever re-discover something you haven’t thought of for years?  Last week I spied something through the clear plastic cover of a box of books I had taken from my old bedroom.  It was the maroon NIV Bible my parents had given me when I was fourteen.  I pulled it out and opened it…

  • ‘I get knocked down,

    but I get up again, you’re never gonna keep me down’*  Now, the other lyrics in this may suggest the self-indulgent reason for being on the floor -‘pissing the night away’ taking  whisky, Vodka, Lager and cider drinks have something to do with it, you would think!  But, ignoring that, the two lines at the…

  • Go fly a kite

    but remember to heed the warnings from Charlie Brown first – the continual battles with kite-eating tree, the running for miles but it never lifting from the ground, the mountains of knotted string… I was thinking about good ole Charlie Brown yesterday as I sat on a rock on the beach, holding two of the…

  • Be careful grown-up mouths

    what you say, because little ears are listening.  This is something I am often aware of when I’m talking to someone with my children present or within earshot.  I have been rebuked many times when my wee girl says something that I had said (sometimes weeks before), forgetting that just because she is below my…

  • It’s all so quiet…

    Well friends, I thought I’d better explain the lack of blog posts lately.  I have been writing, but behind the scenes.  Currently my husband is in the process of preparing my novel, Unmatched Brooches for publishing, and two others are waiting in the sidelines – stories drawn from Glimpses of Sky as I focus on…